The words in Barton’s book said, “The discernment process involves a major commitment to listening with love and attention . . . to those who will be affected most deeply by our decisions.”20 In my spirit, I heard that we needed to talk to our children about what was happening inside our souls. Since they were young, it had never occurred to me to include them in this decision-making process.
Soon after, Jay and I came together, and we told our thirteen-year-old daughter and our ten-year-old son that we felt that God was up to something. They asked if we were moving. Were we changing churches? We said that we didn’t know any details—not when, not where. They responded with good questions rather than with anger, sadness, or concern. Neale said, “Dad, we can move if it will make you happy.”
The conversation was holy ground, a time and place forever marked, a place where we experienced God with them right where we were, on that brown wrap-around corduroy couch in our den.
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