Interviewer: Hidden beliefs about relationships number two:
If a relationship is right, you shouldn't have to work at it.
What exactly is this mistake and what should people do instead?
Jonathan: Basically, what this mistake is, is taking each other for granted. You shouldn't have to work at it then that's just the way it is. You don't treat the person special the way you used to do, when you were courting, and trying to “win the relationship.”
Okay, that's all handled, now we can just get back to a normal life. What happens when they do that is that the energy in the relationship, kind of dies out.
What they should do instead is deliberately
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