“I just couldn’t see eye to eye with him,” John went on, shaking his head. “Somehow my relationship with my supervisor had soured, and there was underlying tension between us. One day, my supervisor, a few colleagues, and I were discussing how best to meet the needs of a new client. This new client would account for 10 percent of the company’s revenue if everything went well. As we discussed our ideas, there were debates. One thing led to another, and I ended up having a heated argument with my supervisor in front of my colleagues. The argument wasn’t personal; it was simply a disagreement about how best to serve the client. I just couldn’t believe my supervisor wouldn’t accept my ideas, and I was frustrated—agitated, even—when he kept turning down my suggestions, one after the other. Sadly, this wasn’t the first time we’d disagreed; it seemed like we were at odds more frequently in the last six months than in the past.
“The next day, I didn’t feel like going to work. I seemed to have no energy, but I forced myself to get ready and drive to work. When I showed up, my supervisor called me into his office and told me I had crossed the line and I was fired. I was shocked; I couldn’t believe it!
“I spent the next hour gathering personal effects and saying goodbye to colleagues, who were equally shocked and disgusted with my supervisor’s decision. Walking out of the office building, I was angry, but I also felt a sense of shame and hopelessness. I felt bad for my family. I knew my wife would be devasted to hear I’d been fired.
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