If you are looking for a story about understanding aging, disabilities, acceptance, and compassion, then this multigenerational book is for you. This is a story of a little boy, Joey, who goes on the first hike of the season in the mountains with his grandpa. His grandpa has changed over the winter. He talks real loud in his noisy truck, he is using walking sticks on the hike, he can't keep up with his grandson like he had last year, he trips on a rock and looks funny when he reads a pocket bird book, and he can't spot things in the woods like he used to last year. What's wrong with Grandpa? He's not the same. This makes 7 year old Joey sad and upset. Grandpa and Joey sit down, have a snack, and discuss what's happening, the changes that Grandpa is experiencing. Joey thought his grandpa would stay the same forever and didn't understand that his grandpa was going through the natural process of aging. This beautifully illustrated book that takes place in a breathtaking mountain setting with nature all around is a great story to help explain the impacts of aging and how it doesn't change the love a grandparent or aging person has for a child. There are thought provoking questions at the end of the story to clarify and reinforce the concepts of the story. This is a wonderful story for grandparents to share with their grandchildren.
Sonja Lange Wendt is an award-winning author of the Cultivating Compassion in Children books series. Her books are intergenerational and address important and sometimes difficult topics with children on inclusion, acceptance, disabilities, bullying and aging. Serina and Seymour Seed kick off and end each story. Seymour and Serina are the seeds of compassion children have, but sometimes they need planting and nurturing to cultivate the best in them. Through increasing awareness, understanding and discussion, these books teach that using compassion in different situations shows kindness in the greatest way in this sometimes difficult to navigate world.
Sonja uses a variety of setting and characters from grandparents, little girl, little boy, and bugs to engage children in the stories. The settings all include nature and the outdoors. Each story ends with thought provoking questions to be asked by the adult and discussed with the child.
These books are generally fitting for children ages 4-8 but as C.S. Lewis states, “A children’s story that can only be enjoyed by children is not a good children’s story in the slightest.” Her books are brilliantly illustrated with vivid colors and scenery.
This book (in eBook format) is FREE today and a great book for Father's Day. It addresses compassion and understanding disabilities, especially those that come with aging. Little children, and even adults, tend to think we will be the same forever. But we all change with age and our bodies start to break down. Children can misunderstand grandparents they love. It could be that grandpa is talking really loud acting like he's mad when he's just getting used to new hearing aids. Maybe it's he can't run and climb like he used to last year and a child may misunderstand and think he is not interested in playing with him anymore. Grandpa may be using walking sticks hiking or a cane when he never did before. Grandpa might make strange faces trying to read something using his new pair of glasses. Understanding that grandpa is aging and disabilities that might come with it shows understanding, compassion and love. This would be a great Father's Day gift for a grandpa from their grandchild.