This Amazon #1 Best Seller book in 4 categories (Peer Pressure, Values, Self-Esteem & Self-Respect, and Girls & Women's books) is part of the Cultivating Compassion in Children series. Six-year-old Maggie questions her grandmother whether old things can be beautiful. This is after Maggie sees advertisements to wash the gray out of your hair and creams to wipe away the wrinkles to make you look young and beautiful. They talk about things that are old and beautiful, like the patchwork quilt on her lap. Maggie comes to her own conclusion on beauty and age. The intent of this story is to see beauty from beyond societal norms to what is simply natural in life. It can lead to thoughts and discussion on positive self-esteem. The illustrations in the book are beautiful and culturally diverse. There are questions at the end that the adult can discuss with the child to encourage thinking and increase their understanding. This is a warm and wonderful book for grandparents and elderly friend to read to young children.
Sonja Lange Wendt is an award-winning author of the Cultivating Compassion in Children books series. Her books are intergenerational and address important and sometimes difficult topics with children on inclusion, acceptance, disabilities, bullying and aging. Serina and Seymour Seed kick off and end each story. Seymour and Serina are the seeds of compassion children have, but sometimes they need planting and nurturing to cultivate the best in them. Through increasing awareness, understanding and discussion, these books teach that using compassion in different situations shows kindness in the greatest way in this sometimes difficult to navigate world.
Sonja uses a variety of setting and characters from grandparents, little girl, little boy, and bugs to engage children in the stories. The settings all include nature and the outdoors. Each story ends with thought provoking questions to be asked by the adult and discussed with the child.
These books are generally fitting for children ages 4-8 but as C.S. Lewis states, “A children’s story that can only be enjoyed by children is not a good children’s story in the slightest.” Her books are brilliantly illustrated with vivid colors and scenery.
Society glorifies youth and views aging as something to be resisted or reversed. This anti-aging movement extends beyond adults, affecting even small children in subtle yet profound ways, impacting even their self worth. Children absorb these societal messages and cultural norms and can develop insecurities about their natural growth and change. The anti-aging industry thrives on the notion that aging is undesirable, often portraying it as a problem to be solved rather than a natural part of life. This perspective can lead to negative stereotypes about older adults, painting them as less capable, less attractive, and less relevant. These attitudes not only impact individual's self-esteem and mental health, but also perpetuates ageism, contributing to discrimination and marginalization of the elderly in various aspects of society. Viewing old age as beautiful encourages a more inclusive and respectful attitude towards older adults. It promotes the idea that every stage of life has its own form of beauty. Aging should be celebrated rather than combated. Beauty standards need to evolve to embrace the natural aging process, honoring the stories and strengths that come with it. Seeing and accepting the beauty in the natural is learned at a young age.
Book Excerpt
Can Old Be Beautiful? (Cultivating Compassion in Children)
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