The opposite of self-discipline is self-indulgence. Self-indulgence is thinking about how you feel at a given moment, then deciding what action, if any, to take and worrying about the consequences later. In my novel, we see that Herods indulged himself by loving and marrying his brother‘s wife and also by overly enjoying Salome’s dancing. We see what bad end these actions led to. Self-discipline is thinking first about the consequences (if you do or if you don‘t), taking the appropriate action, and feeling great about doing the right thing once it‘s done. Self-indulgence tends to build guilt after the fact which, in turn, reduces your enthusiasm for yourself and the work that you‘re doing.
Of course we need to have great dreams and be enthusiastic about them, but it is through discipline that those dreams become concrete.
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1) ”The one quality which sets one man apart from another--the key which lifts one to every aspiration, while others are caught up in the mire of mediocrity--is not talent, formal education nor intellectual brightness--it is self-discipline. With self-discipline, all things are possible. Without it, even the simplest goal can seem like an impossible dream..”
---Theodore Roosevelt
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