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When a person learns to love someone, he becomes aware of the way he perceives love; may not be the way the other person perceives it.
When I think of the word love in this relationship - I think about holding her close, kissing her, making love, holding hands, going for walks.
I think she shows her love by washing dishes, washing clothes, cooking, and cleaning.
So when I want to change things, I must become more helpful with the housework and hope she might become romantic.
Otherwise, we will continue this way. I’m lying in bed, fantasizing about how it would feel to have her lying close to me. And she is in the kitchen washing dishes wishing I was there helping.
I can’t say I’ll enjoy washing dishes etc. But she doesn’t either. It’s not something for enjoyment- it’s something that has to be done.
I can’t say she’ll enjoy lying with me- other than back rubs - I don’t rate high on her list of physical needs. But I know I need it. Maybe come if the choice is between holding dishes or holding me- I’ll win sometimes.
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