The Furnace of Affliction

Hope for the Hurting at the Holidays

As we prepare to celebrate Christmas and revel in the Holidays, I'm taking a moment to speak to those who are hurting in heartbreaking silence. I want to encourage you to have hope. My beloved grandmother helped raise me, spoiled me growing up, passed away a month before Christmas. The love of my life called off our impending marriage a year after getting engaged at Christmas. For years, Christmas and the holidays have been reminders of my loss and pain. The hurt of losing my father sixteen months ago has released a heartache inside me that is hard to express. The pain of losing close friendships, beloved girlfriends, and those dearest to me was sometimes overwhelming. It never takes much prompting to release crocodile tears during the holidays. Whether a stirring movie, a poignant song, or an unexpected kind word. Most Christmases since my engagement ended at 21, I've longed for someone to share Christmas with. However, with God's help, I know that He has been here all along, loving me, caring for me, and protecting me. He loves you too. He sent His Son to be born as a baby, and thirty-three years later, He died for you. What a magnificent love! So, I encourage you this Christmas to embrace His love, and you will experience TRUE JOY!