The Secret of Love: 10 Simple Steps to Finding the Right Relationship

Get out there! A big problem for some people is to take the step of actually meeting people. Often they create excuses as to why they don’t want to meet people—it’s the Fear Factor. People are afraid that having made mistakes in the past, they may do so again. As a result, they have a low confidence level. It’s easier to find excuses not to meet. There are always well-meaning friends and relatives setting one up for the kind of date that ends in disaster. Or else you may have joined a dating agency and are being paired with every loser in town. Take charge of the situation. Do not fixate that the Universe is going to send you your rightful partner in a flash of blinding light at the corner store. You may have to meet someone unsuitable who is the person that opens the right doors—he or she may have the friend who is just right for you. One never knows, so cover all bases.