Letting Go Isn’t Easy
Life is all about attachment and letting go. We need attachment for survival and we need to let go for growth. You were attached to your mother with your umbilical cord and being born broke that attachment and allowed you to join the world as a separate being. Then your first and most critical task is to reattach in a new way.
Once you attached, you had to learn to let go. That is a hard lesson. When you learned to hold on to something—like a piece of furniture—you did not know how to open your hand and let go. So you stayed in one place and when you got tired you probably screamed until somebody came along and released your fingers. You probably then promptly pulled yourself up again and went through the same routine until you finally learned to let go.
This dilemma is repeated in all sorts of situations. Holding on to familiar people, situations, and beliefs feels safe and you are torn between trying to hold on and your natural urge to grow and let go. It’s tricky under the best of circumstances, and since those can’t always be available, every one of us runs into problems we just can’t solve by ourselves—and it is painful and scary for us. So instead of solving the problems, we use our energy to protect ourselves from the pain.
When you do this it is almost like surrounding your perception of this painful situation with your energy and freezing it there to make sure it won’t trouble you any longer. You carry these frozen bits of encapsulated pain everywhere you go. My work with Logosynthesis has convinced me that these frozen bits actually exist in the personal space that surrounds you.
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